Wedding, Death or Funeral?

I came across this link while rummaging through past comments in my blog. Apologies to isagani x for my late reply. Isagani x asks:

Which of the following do you consider as the most painful event?

1. Not seeing your love one on the day of your wedding, that is being stood up
2. Not seeing your love one before he/she dies
3. Not seeing your love one before you die
4. Suppose that life after death is true, not seeing your love one attend your funeral”

Hmm… parang walang tulak-kabigin sa mga ito ah. Everything will result in the — to borrow an oft-used phrase — “pagwasak ng aking puso!” Pero dahil sabi ni isagani x na pumili, e di pumili!

I’d have to go with #3 — not seeing my love before I die.

Why? Because that would be the last chance for me to see, talk to, touch, joke with, and smile at my love. This may seem a little selfish pero I’m dying na nga eh. Ano ba naman yung isang huling tingin, di ba?

Getting stood up can be very painful but you can always rationalize later on (after the mega-hangover wears off) that “maybe it just wasn’t meant to be… that both of us are better off not married…”

Not seeing your love before he/she dies can also be a good thing (sometimes), lalo na kung mahina ang puso mo at di mo keri yung mga makawasak-dibdib moments na ganito.

Finally, while not seeing your loved one attend your funeral can be very sad, it is also quite easy to remedy — e di ikaw ang dumalaw sa mahal mo! hehehe… Malay mo… kung medyo mahina din pala puso niya e di magkikita rin kayo agad sa afterlife!

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Wedding, Death or Funeral?

7 thoughts on “Wedding, Death or Funeral?

  1. rossanova ay nagsasabing:

    ako number 1. kasi parang ibig sabihin nun hindi pala love. eh sa other choices, you can rest secure in the knowledge that love exists (even if either or both of you eventually cease existing). ๐Ÿ˜›

  2. Jae ay nagsasabing:

    Ako 4. kasi number 1, he could be sparing you a lifetime of misery as well. kung nag-iba isip nya at di ka pala nya mahal, he or she was only being true to himself. Number 2, malay mo, namatay sya sa mount everest, bad trip yun, pero di naman masakit kasi wala naman anything personal about it. Number 3, oo, medyo masakit nga ito, kasi di ba ang ideal “die in the arms of the one you love”, pero paano kung nasagasaan ka ng tren, instant death?

    Number 4, masakit yon mehn. Kasi di ba sa atin, kahit asawa ng ninang ng pinsan mo pinupuntahan mo yung funeral. Ganun dito sa pinas. At isang linggo ang wake noh. Pwede mong hanapan ng oras. Kung hindi pa din sya makadalaw at any point, ibig sabihin, thats how little you meant to him. Hindi ka lang nya hindi mahal, hindi ka pa mahalaga sa kanya. Kahit bilang kaibigan.

  3. Siguro, I’ll go for no. 3 … much painful kasi if seeing your love one die in front of you… it’s a cherished memory even sa kabilang buhay dying and seing your love one for one last time.

  4. Kid Kilatis ay nagsasabing:

    @Jae — as in nasagasaan ng tren?! hehehehe

    @Jay — e kung via webcam lang? o ipakita lang sayo piktyur ng mahal mo? ๐Ÿ™‚

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