Salamat po, Mr. President, pero…

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I think this is the phrase that’s going around many peoples’ minds nowadays: “Salamat po, Mr. President, pero…

Bakit “Salamat?”

Kasi, sa totoo lang, andaming mga bagong kaganapan na siya lang ang nakagawa, o dahil sa kanya ay ngayon lang nangyari (at least not in recent memory):

  • Mga Mayor na napipilitang harapin ang mga akusasyon laban sa kanila. Dati kasi, dedma lang sila palagi.
  • Mga opisyales ng Pulis at Militar na pinagagalitan on live TV. Maramihan pa!
  • Nalinis ang Baclaran at Divisoria. Pwede nang daanan ang kalsada.
  • Natameme ang liderato ng Simbahan sa debate tungkol sa RH Law
  • Nabawasan ang mga nag-iinoom sa kalsada
  • Mas kumonti din naman ang mga nagbi-bidyoke ng malakas ng dis-oras ng gabi.

Bakit “Po?”

Shempre, respeto lang. Kung hindi sa tao, then sa position na hawak niya.

Bakit “Mr. President?”

Kasi, kahit hindi siya ang ibinoto ng lahat, nakuha pa rin niya ang pinaka-maraming boto. Therefore, siya ang panalo. Entonces, Presidente natin siya. Anerstang?!

Bakit “Pero…?”

Kasi, parang sobra naman ang kapalit nung mga positibong pagbabago na nilista ko sa itaas. Lugi tayo, kumbaga. Misdeal, ika nga.

As of this post, lampas 800 na ang napapatay sa “Drug War.” At malaki ang posibilidad na hindi lahat sa mga napatay ay guilty. Yung iba ay napagkamalan lang. Yung iba, collateral damage — in the wrong place at the wrong time.

Ewan ko lang sa iba ha, pero sa akin… medyo mahirap tanggapin ang ganito. :-|

Salamat po, Mr. President, pero…

What? Me, Adik?! Baka ikaw din.

Maddict-logoedyo harsh yata yung accusation na ‘yun. Harsh pakinggan. Pero baka nga naman totoo. Otherwise, bakit ka nila babansagan ng ganun?

Hindi lang kasi sa drugs naa-adik ang tao; ‘di lang sa alak o sa yosi. May naa-adik din sa games… sa gym… sa pagda-diet… sa pag-ibig… sa softdrinks… sa pagkain… sa gimik… sa music.

May adik sa pagpapa-ganda… sa trabaho… sa pera… sa kapangyarihan… sa sex… sa porn… sa pagpapa-tattoo… sa facelift… sa sports… sa cellphone… sa heartbreak.

Sa singalong… sa junk food… sa kape… sa pagpapa-puti ng balat… sa cartoons… sa kotse… sa sapatos… sa sugal… sa facebook… sa TV… sa pagtulog.

Pati nga sa blogging may naa-adik na din.

In short, andami talagang pwedeng pagkaadikan sa mundo. Kaya huwag munang magre-react kapag tinawag kang “Adik!” Sa halip ay matutong tanggapin ang katotohanan — na lahat tayo ay mga “Adik” talaga.

Kaya ako, bilang isang mabuting Adik, tanggap ko at masaya ako na ang Asawa ko ay Adik… ang mga Anak ko ay Adik… mga Adik lahat ng kaibigan ko… pati ang mga ka-opisina ko ay pulos mga Adik din.

In fact, nagpapasalamat ako na lahat ng mga kapitbahay namin ay Adik at andaming nagkalat na Adik sa aming baranggay.

🙂

What? Me, Adik?! Baka ikaw din.

The Change I Want

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First things first. I did not vote for Rody Duterte. Ilalatag ko na yun agad habang maaga pa.

I voted for Mar Roxas for President. I had my reasons, of course; the same way that those who voted for Digong had their reasons as well.

The point, however, is simply this: our reasons for voting (or not voting) are all valid and should be respected – no matter what. It is our right to express our political opinions and preferences and the most concrete expression of that right would be our actual votes during election day. Which means that if we really believe in the importance of this tool of democracy called elections, we should learn to respect and — though it’s sometimes very hard to do — accept the outcome.

After all, we can’t always have what we want all the time, right?

So I will say this: even if the guy sometimes scares me… and his family scares me… and his friends scare me… and his advisers scare me… and his plans scare the bejeezus out of me… I accept his victory.

And I wish him well. I wish him success in his six years in office as President of the Philippines. For the people have spoken; and as they say, the voice of the People is the voice of God.

But… of course there is a “but;” there’s always a “but”… I hope to God his promise to bring “change” to our country does not destroy it at the same time.

Change is good. Change is inevitable.

But change can be achieved through many different ways, so we don’t always have to choose the most traumatic ways to effect change; more so if our leaders seem hell-bent on doing exactly that.

The Change I Want

Elections already over? Wahappen??!

Amazing. I was so caught up in my work these past few months that I completely overlooked blogging about the 2016 Elections. I know my blogging has been quite irregular lately (to say the least), but to not blog anything at all about the elections?! That’s not right!

But better late than never, right? Also, late blogging affords me the opportunity to be… let’s just say, less passionate about the topic.

So the campaign period has come and gone… the voting has finally finished… and the counting almost over. Many local candidates have already been proclaimed and people are now waiting for the proclamation of the new set of national leaders. Of course, the outcomes are already clear (except probably for the VP race) and one already has an inkling – depending on which side of the line you were on during the campaign – of how good, or bad, the next six years will be for you.

In my case, I’m both worried and relieved.

Worried because the incoming President did make many worrying pronouncements during the campaign. Worried because He seems intent on pushing through with his ideas. Worried because the current make-up of his Cabinet seems to be a recipe for ceaseless infighting.

I am quite relieved, though, that the poisoned atmosphere that was the campaign has finally dissipated — with some hardcore exceptions, of course. There always are. I am also relieved that the elections were generally peaceful and fair (again with some exceptions). And I am very much relieved that “democracy,” such as we know it in the Philippines, is still very much alive, albeit more smudged, scratched and dingy than before.

It’s not wishful thinking to clamor for change. I only hope that it is the kind of change that we can all live with (and not die from).

Change ahead

Elections already over? Wahappen??!

45 and still alive!

Medyo melo-dramatic, I know, pero marami-rami rin kasing tao ang pumapanaw before reaching this particular age. And knowing myself (na hindi naman poster boy for health and fitness, never mind clean living), I am genuinely surprised that I have made it this far with only a few scars to show.

Pero I am genuinely thankful to God na hindi pa niya ako kinukuha. Salamat dahil maliliit pa ang mga anak ko. I pray na sana maranasan ko pa na makalaro ang aking mga magiging apo.

And being a firm believer in the principle of “quid pro quo,” I resolve, from hereon, to live a more discerning, fulfilling and healthier life. Specifically:

  • bawasan (lalo) ang pag-inom ng alak
  • ituloy lang ang pagiging reformed smoker
  • bawasan ang love affair sa “extra rice”
  • itakwil na ng tuluyan ang softdrinks
  • bawasan ang kape
  • tanggapin na finally na masama talaga sa katawan ang taba ng baboy
  • bawasan ang pagka-hilig sa matatamis
  • dagdagan ang pagkain ng gulay
  • dagdagan ang exercise – buhayin ang pagbibisikleta at dalasan ang paglalakad
  • spend more quality time with my family
  • bawasan ang pagiging sensitive
  • look more at the positive things in life
  • tantanan na ang laging pagpupuyat
  • Pray more

Boom! Happy Birthday to me!🙂

45 and still alive!

I refuse to have to choose!

What’s wrong with just saying “NO” when faced with the dilemma of having to select from several equally-unacceptable choices? After all, choosing the “lesser evil” is still choosing something “evil,” ‘di ba? So why choose it in the first place?

We always hear this “lesser evil” argument issue raised whenever elections are near, as if not choosing (read: not voting for) anyone is the worst evil of all. I think not. In fact, I believe the opposite to be true — i.e., not voting for anyone is way better than adding your vote to the mandate of a politician you don’t really trust.

Which leads me to this other common, election-related argument that not filling-in the Ballot entirely is a bad thing and that we’re somehow losing out by not maximizing the opportunity to include other candidates. There is something very wrong with this mindset. I really wouldn’t have any problem with filling-in all the blanks IF I had a lot of good choices to pick from. Ang kaso, wala eh. At most, we get a handful of good candidates from the pool of mediocre, thieving, clueless, and idiotic trapos we are regularly forced to choose from.

Kaya ako, I will only vote for candidates I really, REALLY believe in. And if that means submitting a Ballot with a lot of blank spaces, so be it.

Hindi baleng Balota ay butas-butas, basta ang boto ko’y wagas!

By the way, hindi lang angkop ang prinsipyong ito sa pag-boto; it can also be a guide when choosing what to eat/drink, where to go, or what to say. I don’t think that you are losing by choosing to just eat at home and not eat out; by going on staycation instead of going with the throng; or by just keeping quiet.

 

 

I refuse to have to choose!

Pwede bang kahit “manners” na lang muna ang i-require?

Ang hindi ko lang talaga maintindihan, sa tuwing sumasapit ang eleksyon, bakit bigla yatang tumataas (ng sobra) ang mga standards natin pagdating sa mga kwalipikasyon at pagkatao ng mga tumatakbo?

Kunsabagay, hindi naman bawal ang mangarap. Ansaya nga sana kung totoong “walang bahid ng korapsyon” ang isang tumatakbo. O di kaya’y talagang “para sa bayan” lamang ang nasa isipan ng isang pulitiko. Kaso, alam naman nating lahat na walang ganung klaseng tao talaga.

Kahit nga mga Santo hindi perpekto, ‘di ba? So why the “extra-optimistic” demands all of a sudden? Can’t we all just be realistic when weighing the pros and cons of a candidate? Yung maging makatotohanan lang ba.

Ako, for example, kuntento na ako kung ang mga kandidatong iboboto ko (whether for local or national positions) ay:

  • hindi pipili ng mga consultant na mas bobo pa sa kanila
  • hindi i-insultohin ang talino ko sa kanilang pag-papalusot
  • hindi magiging sobrang garapal (yung harap-harapan na ba) sa pangungurakot habang nasa pwesto
  • uunahin ang kapakanan ng Pilipinas kaysa ng ibang bansa
  • totoong naniniwala AT may takot sa Diyos
  • practices “good manners and right conduct”🙂
Pwede bang kahit “manners” na lang muna ang i-require?